Go to YouTube, and search for David Sides. I was listening to Jay Chou’s Feng, a song I never get tired of, because of its wonderful music and lyrics. I thought of looking at some piano playing videos on YouTube and I found David Sides’ then I kept on repeating his videos. His skills on the piano gives me the goosebumps. His simply impressive. Compared to me… I can only play Lee Hom- Kiss Goodbye’s, Lin Jun Jie-Cao Cao’s and Jay Chou-Feng’s starting? WITH THE CHORD. Hahaha. But I’m proud that I did it all based on hearing, and NO NOTES AT ALL! I’m making myself feel better by saying that I can’t play the rest of the songs because once the other instruments come in, I can’t hear the piano in the background clearly. Eheheheh.
Someone was telling me how his girlfriend broke up with him for another guy she has known for less than 1 month.
They knew each other since young, they studied in the same kindergarten and primary school, has been going out often since they went into different secondary schools. They were together for very long, although only “officially together” for a year.
And recently, they broke up.
He told me everything in detail, but I won’t say everything in detail.
Here’s how:
They went for job interviews together. And as they had to be interviewed one by one, while the guy was being interviewed, another guy chatted up his girlfriend and got her number.
He let her know that he lives in a semi-detached house down at Thomson Road, he let her know that he has his own Mercedez SLK and is working just to accompany his friends, he let her know that he is studying business to take over HIS DAD’s BIG business.
And the very impressed girl got attracted to that guy’s wealth, looks, and err, false intelligence.
They started going out, and now the girl has broke up with her boyfriend, for that guy.
Friendship since young, relationship since a year ago. All gone within a month. Wow, it’s possible.
He asked me to explain it. Er.
I remember saying, immature girls have no fixed way of falling in love. There is no fixed thing that, attracts them?
Now I know what. There are a few. In fact it applies to immature guys as well.
1. Looks
2. Build/Body
3. Wealth(This doesn’t really apply to guys)
4. Brains(For guys, I think most won’t mind girls more stupid than them)
As for feeling? As long as the partner possesses any of the above, or one or more, there will definitely be a good feeling ;D So for the best feeling, the partner should possess all of them.
Step right out of your house now, and look at all the couples now, the adult ones, or at least, those of age 20 and above. What’s are their partners like? You are seeing more and more girls choosing smart guys, and guys choosing good looking girls that are able to communicate with them. Not all are like that, but more will be, because they learn from the old people’s mistakes.
In 10 years time, you will see parents using “finding a good partner” as the main reason to make their kids study, and not “finding a good job.” Trust me.
I think as we grow, our mind is more capable of selecting choices, due to experiences we’ve gone through. When we are young, we select our partner based on looks, wealth, body, OR brain, maybe some select partners based on 2 aspects and above, but hardly. As we get older, we can judge more aspects of a person just by looking at him/her. We select partners based on overall results of all 4 aspects(looks, body, wealth, brains). Each weighs 25%, the perfect partner would consist of 25% looks, 25% body, 25% wealth, 25% brains. Also, as we grow older, “feeling” is another aspect to consider, but how do you know if you feel good? Same. If one possesses all 4 aspects, the feeling would be good. Otherwise, it’s just based on trust, comfort, and security.
